When someone comes and tell me that they are a victim of bad marriage, I really wonder if they are telling the truth. The reason is no one knows who is to blame. The person who is talking to me might be telling the truth or he might be telling me his version of the truth. Who is to tell. I wonder if they got into the marriage knowing what marriage is all about.
I think unless we have seen a person deal with a lowly person who can be of no use to him, one should not make a judgement as to how he, is as a person.
I believe how ones life is lived is entirely up to him. Find people giving unsolicited advices a pain. Even if one seek advice from you, it doesnt mean that he is incapable of solving the problems, rather he’s trying to get a perspective, then it becomes essential that you don’t impose your wisdom upon him, but rather try to expand his thought lines.
